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Stephen Baskerville
A Blog about the Divorce Regime, Family Court Corruption, and Government's War on Fathers

Radio Interviews on Taken Into Custody
Over the next few weeks I will be doing a series of radio interviews based on my book Taken Into Custody. These are arranged with help from a generous benefactor with the cooperation of the American Coalition for Fathers and Children (ACFC). The firm helping with arrangements, Spence Media, report that "your topic really hit a cord" with producers, and they are eager to have me on. This indicates that we should be much more aggressive in pursuing media for our cause. The media and the public are sympathetic and anxious to hear our message.

Here is a tentative list of upcoming shows, starting today. Please circulate these to your lists right away, and ask people to tune in and (when possible) phone in. Thanks.

Wednesday, October 28th
10:15 am ET
20 Minutes-Taped
Host is Teresa Tomeo
WDEO -- Based in MI
Catholic Connection
National Market

Wednesday, October 28th
2:45 pm ET
Host is Steve Deace
WHO - Based in IA
Top 100 Market

Friday, October 30th
11:30 am until 11:45 am ET
Host is Doug Giles
Clash Radio -- Based in FL
Religious -- National Market

Saturday, October 31st
6:50 am ET
Host is Don Russell
WBT -- Based in NC
Charlotte's Morning News Weekend"
Secular -- Top 50 Market

Monday, November 2nd
11 am ET
25 Minutes
Host is Ted Elm
"Northland Notebook"
Based in MN - Religious

Monday, November 2nd
5:30 pm ET
30 Minutes
Host is Todd Wilkins
KSIV
Issues, Etc.
Religious -- Top 25 Market

Sunday, November 15th
8:30 until 9:30 pm ET
1 Hour
Hosts are Pastor Brian Runge & Pastor Schultz
KKHT
"Truth Alive" -- Religious
Based in TX

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Review of TIC, with Baldwin
A review of Taken Into Custody has just been published by the economist Jennifer Roback-Morse in the prestigious scholarly journal, The Family in America. She reviewed it together with Alec Baldwin's book on his divorce ordeal, A Promise to Ourselves, so it is sure to get attention. An excerpt is below.

The Family in America has been expanded into a full-length journal and contains other valuable articles on the family. In fact, I have an article due out in the next issue.

http://www.familyinamerica.org/roback.php

Excerpts:

"With penetrating insight, the political scientist exposes the truly breathtaking consequences of no-fault divorce for the expansion of state power and the decline of personal autonomy."

"...enforcing the divorce means an unprecedented blurring of the boundaries between public and private life. People under the jurisdiction of family courts can have virtually all of their private lives subject to its scrutiny. If the courts are influenced by feminist ideology, that ideology can extend its reach into every bedroom and kitchen in America. Baldwin ran the gauntlet of divorce industry professionals who have been deeply influenced by the feminist presumptions that the man is always at fault and the woman is always a victim. Thus, the social experiment of no-fault divorce, which most Americans thought was supposed to increase personal liberty, has had the consequence of empowering the state."

"Baskerville makes the case in this book—as well as his 2008 monograph, "The Dangerous Rise of Sexual Politics," in The Family In America—that at least some of the advocates of changes in family law certainly have intended to expand the power of the state over the private lives of law-abiding citizens."

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The American Conservative: “Married to the State”
My article, "Married to the State," has just been published in The American Conservative, online edition.

A longer, scholarly version of this argument will be published in the January 2010 issue of The Family in America: A Journal of Public Policy.

TAC has published 3 previous articles of mine in their print edition:
"Fathers Into Felons"
"The Fathers' War"
"Violence Against Families"

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Married to the State
How government colonizes the family


By Stephen Baskerville

In 1947, with the baby boom in its infancy and few disposed to hearing of family crisis, Harvard sociologist Carle Zimmerman saw the long-term reality: the family had been deteriorating since the Renaissance and was nearing the point of no return. Whenever the family shows signs of dysfunction, Zimmerman observed, "the state helps to break it up." During the 19th century, "law piled on law, and government agency upon government agency" until by 1900 "the state had become master of the family." The result, he wrote in Family and Civilization, was that "the family is now truly the agent, the slave, the handmaiden of the state."

To read the rest, go to: http://www.amconmag.com/blog/married-to-the-state/.

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Another New Crime: “Bullying”
The criminalization of fathers and parents generally is closely followed by the criminalization of children, especially boys. One manifestation is new laws against "bullying", another new quasi-crime with no precise definition.

According to the Associated Press this week, "Anti-bullying laws lack any regular enforcement" (The Washington Times, 15 September 2009, p. B3.). This is not surprising.

Georgia is said to have an anti-bullying law that is "among the toughest in the nation", according to the AP. But against what and whom precisely does it protect? Apparently "the state doesn't collect data specifically on bullying occurrences," so we do not know precisely how much bullying there is. And how can we, since no one knows precisely what constitutes "bullying"?

As with other new nebulous crimes proceeding from the sexual revolution -- like "domestic violence," "child abuse," and "sexual harassment" -- we are relying here for our evidence of this problem on "reports" that may or may not be "confirmed" (by whom? government officials?) but are not likely to be adjudicated as we usually understand that term -- i.e., by a jury trial or other due process protections. "Bullying experts point out that the rising numbers may reflect more reports of bullying, not necessarily more incidents," says the AP. Here too the definition becomes highly subjective. "Many children reported teasing, spreading rumors, and threats." So teasing and spreading rumors are now against the law? "How do you quantify bullying?" a school official asks, sensibly enough. "It could even be as simple as a rolling of the eyes." For this students will be prosecuted? Or simply punished? How, for "a rolling of the eyes"?

The AP writes that "Most states require school districts to adopt open-ended policies to prohibit bullying and harassment." Open-ended indeed, since nothing else is possible. "It needs to be written into the law that bullying has the same consequences as assault," says Brenda High, who operates a web site revealingly called Bully Police. Then why not simply use the existing assault laws, if it really is violent assault. Or is it more "open-ended"? Like "a rolling of the eyes"?

What is striking is that the AP does not really even ask these questions or probe any deeper into this alleged problem of criminal justice and neither apparently do many of the officials who would have us believe that we need yet more criminal statutes and law enforcement machinery.

It may well be that bullying is a growing and even rampant problem. The important point here is that traditionally it was fathers that protected their children against bullies or taught them how to handle themselves against bullies and prevented them from themselves bullying others. But having eliminated fathers, the single mothers can only protect their own children by ever more police power and by lobbying the state to criminalize more of other people's children.

Once again, eliminate the fathers and increase the power and reach of the state.

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WorldNetDaily: “Molested by the State”
My article, "Molested by the State," is published today on WorldNetDaily:

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Molested by the state
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Posted: September 12, 2009
1:00 am Eastern

By Stephen Baskerville
© 2009

A recent United Nations report advocates giving mandatory instruction in masturbation to children as young as 5. "Sexuality education is part of the duty of care of education and health authorities and institutions," according to the U.N.

Entitled "International Guidelines on Sexuality Education," the document is published by the United Nations Educational, Scientific, and Cultural Organization, or UNESCO. The entire document is a manifesto for governments to assume control over the "sexual education" of children, to inculcate in them politically correct ideas about sex and sexual politics, and to undermine and marginalize their parents.

To read the rest: http://www.wnd.com/index.php?pageId=109563

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Fagan’s Paper Published
Pat Fagan's paper delivered at the World Congress of Families in Amsterdam last month, mentioned in the last post, is available here. Note this important passage toward the end:

...in the protection of the family, men have the special role of being the primary protector. Thus, in this political competition for peaceful coexistence, the male needs to especially engage the increasingly hostile state and the polygamy culture whenever it "raids" the territory of his family's domain. ... We can wait no longer; we need men of courage and energy. We are looking for the first few.

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Pat Fagan at World Congress of Families
Patrick Fagan of the Family Research Council also presented a striking paper at the World Congress of Families in Amsterdam earlier this month, in which he called specifically on men to exercise leadership in the pro-family movement. "Let monogamous men get serious about protecting their children and their families, and obtaining justice for them," Fagan said.

Leaders of the conservative pro-family movement have been reluctant to call attention to the government's abuse of men and fathers for fear of inflaming a gender war. But it is becoming too conspicuous to ignore. The destruction of families and the destruction of fatherhood are inseparable, and it is no accident that they are being seen together.

Fagan also warned that the government increasingly "snatches children away from their parents" through three areas of public policy: "education of children, sex education, and adolescent health." Some might want to add that even larger numbers of children are being seized through the machinery governing divorce and child custody.

Fagan's paper is summarized here, but I shall also try to obtain a copy for posting.

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World Congress of Families Talk
Thanks for Ad Verdiesen of the Netherlands, part of my talk at the World Congress of Families in Amsterdam is now on YouTube. So far, it seems to be the only presentation at the Congress so honored. Other speakers did mention the plight of divorced parents however. During the same panel, Babette Francis of Australia described the injustices at some length, and others mentioned them too. No one objected to this message, and on the contrary, it was well received. This was a major event, extensively covered in the Dutch media and often the subject of commentaries in English. The word is getting out.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bFRBegsm3n4

Stephen

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Review: Carle Zimmerman, Family and Civilization
My review of Carle Zimmerman's classic Family and Civilization, recently reissued by ISI Books, has just been published in Society, a very prestigious scholarly journal. Society is not esoteric or highly specialized, and so it is very influential. Unfortunately, it is not online, and Society is very scrupulous about guarding its copyright. Information on how to obtain a copy and the first page are on the links below.

Unlike today's advocates for the family, Zimmerman (writing in 1947) has a lot to say about divorce and its role in family deterioration. He also emphasized the direct role of government in destroying families, arguing in effect that the state and the family have been on a collision course throughout modern history. Occasionally, he even takes a dig at family court, which even in his day was engaging in abuses that have since become much more widespread. I highlight these aspects in the review.

Stephen Baskerville
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http://www.springerlink.com/content/g3232524710725l2/
http://www.springerlink.com/content/g3232524710725l2/fulltext.pdf?page=1

Carle C. Zimmerman, Family and Civilization
Edited by James Kurth. Wilmington, DE: ISI Books, 2008. xiii + 337 pp. $18.00. ISBN-10: 1933859377; ISBN-13: 978--1933859378

Stephen Baskerville

A society grappling with a declining birthrate, proliferation
of single-parent homes, and government policies that
undermine parents and families will find it sobering to learn
that some were sounding the alarm decades ago, even in the
apparently family-friendly post-war years, and that the trends
were developing long before that. Even more disturbing is
that the same ills plagued ancient civilizations—shortly
before they collapsed.

A publishing event of major importance is the re-issue of
Family and Civilization by Harvard sociologist Carle Clark
Zimmerman (1897--1983). Originally published in 1947,
the book is a classic of family scholarship, though as Allan
Carlson explains in the introduction, it has largely been
ignored by the academic elite.

Zimmerman demonstrates how the fragmentation of the
family in Greece and Rome preceded the disintegration of
those civilizations and how similar trends now threaten our
own. Writing as the post-war baby boom (a temporary
aberration, it turns out) was just beginning and the family
appeared to be on a major upsurge, Zimmerman identified
long-term trends that are only now reaching general
awareness.

Polybius noticed "a low birth-rate and a general decrease
of the population" in Greece during the second century BC.
In modern Europe birth rates have been falling since the late
nineteenth century and were below replacement level by
1930. This falloff reflected a larger renunciation of the
family as a social and personal institution, what Zimmerman
calls "familism." "The extinction of faith in the familistic
system in Europe in the last two generations is identical with
the movements in Greece during the century following the
Peloponnesian Wars and in Rome from about 150 AD to 250
AD," he wrote: "In each case the change in the faith and
belief in family systems was associated with rapid adoption
of negative reproductive rates, increased acceptance of
perverted forms of sex behavior, and with enormous crises
in the very civilizations themselves."

One can come away from Zimmerman's book very
pessimistic—from the realization that today's trends have
been developing not for decades but for centuries, from
knowing that our Greek and Roman predecessors were
unable to prevent similar crises, and because the demographic
and cultural trends seem beyond the reach of public
policy. Readers witnessing continuing family deterioration
six decades later may conclude that the prognosis for
Western civilization is bleak indeed.

And yet while demography and culture are major
themes, they are not wholly determining. While he does
not state it explicitly, a striking feature of Zimmerman's
analysis, and one that offers some hope, is that the decline
of the family—really, the attack on the family—is not a
matter simply of impersonal forces but the direct and
conscious work of the state. Over and over, Zimmerman
points out how the state views the family as a threat, how
the state eviscerates the family, the state sponsors antifamily
intellectuals, the state seeks supremacy over the
family and society in general.

Zimmerman writes of the "relation between the type of
family and strong central governments," arguing that
historically it was in their absence that the family developed
most extensively. Later, "Strongly developed central governments
made the internal cohesion of family groups less
and less necessary." Whenever the family shows signs of
dysfunction, "the state helps to break it up." The state...

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F & F’s Robinson Interviewed on Our Efforts to Protect Military Parents from Family Court Abuses (Audio Available)
Fathers & Families’ legislative representative Michael Robinson discussed our efforts to protect military parents from family court abuses with Rick Ortiz of DadsDivorce Live recently. To listen to the audio of Robinson’s interview, click here. Robinson has worked with Mark Sullivan of the American Bar Association on federal military parent legislation. Partly due to their work, ...

Fathers & Families Speaks to Elkins Family Law Task Force, Makes Recommendations
"The families that judges see in family court are already fractured, but still capable of inflicting pain on one another and often use the courts to do so…They make navigating the family law system so difficult that even a highly functional person becomes stressed." — Honorable Donna Petre, Sacramento Bee, 2000 Family law takes up ...

Action Alert: Psychology Today Praises Woman Who Murdered Her Husband as ‘Great Revenge’
Fathers & Families is sending the protest letter below to Psychology Today via regular US mail and email. To add your signature to the letter and send it to Psychology Today, simply click here and fill out the fields. Letter from Fathers & Families to Psychology Today: Kaja Perina Editor-in-Chief Psychology Today 115 E. 23rd St., 9th Floor New York, NY ...

Success: Bill to Protect Disabled Parents from Family Court Abuses Passes Committee Unanimously
Monday evening Fathers & Families issued an Action Alert in support of Arizona HB 2348, a bill to protect disabled parents from child support and alimony abuses. As usual, your response was overwhelming—we thank all those who participated. We have just learned that the bill has passed the Arizona House Military Affairs and ...

Video: ‘Don’t Make Me Choose’
Fathers & Families supporter Katrina McKenna sent us this video she made in support of shared parenting. The video can also be seen at her blog at www.ineedboth.com. ]]>

Action Alert: Support Bill to Protect Disabled Fathers from Family Court Abuses
Arizona HB 2348 will help protect disabled fathers (and mothers) from child support and alimony abuses–to email and fax a letter in support of the bill, click here. The hearing on the bill is Wednesday January 27, so please act ASAP. Although federal law is clear, judges are often ignoring it and calculating ...

New Massachusetts Senator Scott Brown Co-Sponsored F & F’s Shared Parenting Bill
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F & F Helps Introduce New AZ Bill to Protect Disabled Fathers from Child Support/Alimony Abuses
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F & F Concludes Most Successful Fundraising Campaign Ever—in the Face of the Worst Economy Since the Great Depression!
More people gave money to Fathers & Families in 2009 than ever before, and our revenues shot up almost 80% from 2008. In a year when almost all non-profits’ revenues have declined and many are laying off employees, F & F’s revenues shot up and we are expanding. More revenue equals more staff, which means more work, ...



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Should a Teen Who Forwards a Sext Land on Sex Offender Registry?
No, says the dad of the boy in question. Here’s the story: Boy #1, age 14, had a girlfriend who sent him a nude picture of herself. Then he and the girl broke up and he, repulsively, forwarded the photo to kids at three other schools. It seems that some of the kids who got the [...]]]>

You Will Love This! Yay, Kid!
A five-year-old calls 911 when her daddy can’t breathe. Here’s the story, as seen on the Bonnie Hunt Show. A reminder to all of us: 1 – Teach your kids about 911. 2 – Remember what kids are capable of! They can rise to the occasion! (Let’s just hope the kid doesn’t get her own reality show and [...]]]>

Interesting Stories I’ve Tweeted in the Past 24 Hours
Hi Readers! I get a lot of amazing material throughout the day and when I can’t think of anything particular to add in the way of a blog post,  I just Tweet them. It finally dawned on me that maybe I should share those Tweets right here, because not everyone is a  Twitter-type. So here [...]]]>

Just What the World Needs: Kiddie Lingerie
And yet, that’s what the world it is getting: A new line of lingerie for girls 9-14 aunched by Miley Cyrus’ little sister, Noah, and Miley’s Hannah Montana co-star, Emily Grace Reaves. Or so sez BoingBoing. Read all about it here (and here and here). Does anyone else remember the furor when Miley took those sexy, shirt-free photos with [...]]]>

Outrage of the Week: Boy Almost Suspended for Lego Gun The Size of a Cheeto
Hi Readers — I am ashamed to say this incident happened in my own city, New York. (Well, Staten Island, anyway.) A Staten Island fourth-grader was reprimanded and almost suspended yesterday when the principal spotted him playing with a LEGO policeman and a two-inch-long toy gun during lunch, the Advance reports. Under the city’s no-tolerance policy regarding guns [...]]]>

All Men Are Perverts, Part II: The Clerk
Here’s a short, fun post from the blog (The Customer Is) Not Always Right, all about a new clerk trying to figure out where to shelve the girls’ underwear he is carrying. Yes, that means he is wandering around the store, in public, girls’ panties in tow. ]]>

Why We Love The Onion, Parts 84,391 and 84,392
It’s because of stories like this: “Nation’s Strangers Decry Negative Portrayal Among Children.” And video news reports like this: “Missing Girl Probably Raped.” How do they nail it again and again? Anyway, if you’re easily offended, skip these. If not — enjoy!  Lenore P.S. This classic just in! Sent by a reader:  ”More U.S. Children Being Diagnosed with [...]]]>

Fantastic (Under-reported) News: Child Abuse WAY DOWN!
Hi Readers — Yes, it’s true! According to this story by the Associated Press, a “massive” federal study finds that child abuse has declined a whopping 26% from 1993 to 2006. What’s more, child sexual abuse is down even more dramatically: 38%! The reasons seem to be a combination of higher awareness of the crime, less [...]]]>

Shark to 14-Year-Old Girl: Okay, Okay. You Win!
Hi Readers — Not quite sure what this has to do with Free-Range other than: Never underestimate the power of a 14-year-old girl! The one in this New Zealand incident gave her attacker a whack and lived to tell the (shark) tale.  – Lenore ]]>



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