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A review of Taken Into Custody has just been published by the economist Jennifer Roback-Morse in the prestigious scholarly journal, The Family in America. She reviewed it together with Alec Baldwin's book on his divorce ordeal, A Promise to Ourselves, so it is sure to get attention. An excerpt is below.
The Family in America has been expanded into a full-length journal and contains other valuable articles on the family. In fact, I have an article due out in the next issue.
http://www.familyinamerica.org/roback.php
Excerpts:
"With penetrating insight, the political scientist exposes the truly breathtaking consequences of no-fault divorce for the expansion of state power and the decline of personal autonomy."
"...enforcing the divorce means an unprecedented blurring of the boundaries between public and private life. People under the jurisdiction of family courts can have virtually all of their private lives subject to its scrutiny. If the courts are influenced by feminist ideology, that ideology can extend its reach into every bedroom and kitchen in America. Baldwin ran the gauntlet of divorce industry professionals who have been deeply influenced by the feminist presumptions that the man is always at fault and the woman is always a victim. Thus, the social experiment of no-fault divorce, which most Americans thought was supposed to increase personal liberty, has had the consequence of empowering the state."
"Baskerville makes the case in this book—as well as his 2008 monograph, "The Dangerous Rise of Sexual Politics," in The Family In America—that at least some of the advocates of changes in family law certainly have intended to expand the power of the state over the private lives of law-abiding citizens." ]]> The American Conservative: “Married to the State”
My article, "Married to the State," has just been published in The American Conservative, online edition.
A longer, scholarly version of this argument will be published in the January 2010 issue of The Family in America: A Journal of Public Policy.
TAC has published 3 previous articles of mine in their print edition:
"Fathers Into Felons"
"The Fathers' War"
"Violence Against Families"
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Married to the State
How government colonizes the family
By Stephen Baskerville
In 1947, with the baby boom in its infancy and few disposed to hearing of family crisis, Harvard sociologist Carle Zimmerman saw the long-term reality: the family had been deteriorating since the Renaissance and was nearing the point of no return. Whenever the family shows signs of dysfunction, Zimmerman observed, "the state helps to break it up." During the 19th century, "law piled on law, and government agency upon government agency" until by 1900 "the state had become master of the family." The result, he wrote in Family and Civilization, was that "the family is now truly the agent, the slave, the handmaiden of the state."
To read the rest, go to: http://www.amconmag.com/blog/married-to-the-state/. ]]> Another New Crime: “Bullying”
The criminalization of fathers and parents generally is closely followed by the criminalization of children, especially boys. One manifestation is new laws against "bullying", another new quasi-crime with no precise definition.
According to the Associated Press this week, "Anti-bullying laws lack any regular enforcement" (The Washington Times, 15 September 2009, p. B3.). This is not surprising.
Georgia is said to have an anti-bullying law that is "among the toughest in the nation", according to the AP. But against what and whom precisely does it protect? Apparently "the state doesn't collect data specifically on bullying occurrences," so we do not know precisely how much bullying there is. And how can we, since no one knows precisely what constitutes "bullying"?
As with other new nebulous crimes proceeding from the sexual revolution -- like "domestic violence," "child abuse," and "sexual harassment" -- we are relying here for our evidence of this problem on "reports" that may or may not be "confirmed" (by whom? government officials?) but are not likely to be adjudicated as we usually understand that term -- i.e., by a jury trial or other due process protections. "Bullying experts point out that the rising numbers may reflect more reports of bullying, not necessarily more incidents," says the AP. Here too the definition becomes highly subjective. "Many children reported teasing, spreading rumors, and threats." So teasing and spreading rumors are now against the law? "How do you quantify bullying?" a school official asks, sensibly enough. "It could even be as simple as a rolling of the eyes." For this students will be prosecuted? Or simply punished? How, for "a rolling of the eyes"?
The AP writes that "Most states require school districts to adopt open-ended policies to prohibit bullying and harassment." Open-ended indeed, since nothing else is possible. "It needs to be written into the law that bullying has the same consequences as assault," says Brenda High, who operates a web site revealingly called Bully Police. Then why not simply use the existing assault laws, if it really is violent assault. Or is it more "open-ended"? Like "a rolling of the eyes"?
What is striking is that the AP does not really even ask these questions or probe any deeper into this alleged problem of criminal justice and neither apparently do many of the officials who would have us believe that we need yet more criminal statutes and law enforcement machinery.
It may well be that bullying is a growing and even rampant problem. The important point here is that traditionally it was fathers that protected their children against bullies or taught them how to handle themselves against bullies and prevented them from themselves bullying others. But having eliminated fathers, the single mothers can only protect their own children by ever more police power and by lobbying the state to criminalize more of other people's children.
Once again, eliminate the fathers and increase the power and reach of the state. ]]> WorldNetDaily: “Molested by the State”
My article, "Molested by the State," is published today on WorldNetDaily:
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Molested by the state
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Posted: September 12, 2009
1:00 am Eastern
By Stephen Baskerville
© 2009
A recent United Nations report advocates giving mandatory instruction in masturbation to children as young as 5. "Sexuality education is part of the duty of care of education and health authorities and institutions," according to the U.N.
Entitled "International Guidelines on Sexuality Education," the document is published by the United Nations Educational, Scientific, and Cultural Organization, or UNESCO. The entire document is a manifesto for governments to assume control over the "sexual education" of children, to inculcate in them politically correct ideas about sex and sexual politics, and to undermine and marginalize their parents.
To read the rest: http://www.wnd.com/index.php?pageId=109563 ]]> Fagan’s Paper Published
Pat Fagan's paper delivered at the World Congress of Families in Amsterdam last month, mentioned in the last post, is available here. Note this important passage toward the end:
...in the protection of the family, men have the special role of being the primary protector. Thus, in this political competition for peaceful coexistence, the male needs to especially engage the increasingly hostile state and the polygamy culture whenever it "raids" the territory of his family's domain. ... We can wait no longer; we need men of courage and energy. We are looking for the first few.
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Patrick Fagan of the Family Research Council also presented a striking paper at the World Congress of Families in Amsterdam earlier this month, in which he called specifically on men to exercise leadership in the pro-family movement. "Let monogamous men get serious about protecting their children and their families, and obtaining justice for them," Fagan said.
Leaders of the conservative pro-family movement have been reluctant to call attention to the government's abuse of men and fathers for fear of inflaming a gender war. But it is becoming too conspicuous to ignore. The destruction of families and the destruction of fatherhood are inseparable, and it is no accident that they are being seen together.
Fagan also warned that the government increasingly "snatches children away from their parents" through three areas of public policy: "education of children, sex education, and adolescent health." Some might want to add that even larger numbers of children are being seized through the machinery governing divorce and child custody.
Fagan's paper is summarized here, but I shall also try to obtain a copy for posting. ]]> World Congress of Families Talk
Thanks for Ad Verdiesen of the Netherlands, part of my talk at the World Congress of Families in Amsterdam is now on YouTube. So far, it seems to be the only presentation at the Congress so honored. Other speakers did mention the plight of divorced parents however. During the same panel, Babette Francis of Australia described the injustices at some length, and others mentioned them too. No one objected to this message, and on the contrary, it was well received. This was a major event, extensively covered in the Dutch media and often the subject of commentaries in English. The word is getting out.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bFRBegsm3n4
Stephen ]]> Review: Carle Zimmerman, Family and Civilization
My review of Carle Zimmerman's classic Family and Civilization, recently reissued by ISI Books, has just been published in Society, a very prestigious scholarly journal. Society is not esoteric or highly specialized, and so it is very influential. Unfortunately, it is not online, and Society is very scrupulous about guarding its copyright. Information on how to obtain a copy and the first page are on the links below.
Unlike today's advocates for the family, Zimmerman (writing in 1947) has a lot to say about divorce and its role in family deterioration. He also emphasized the direct role of government in destroying families, arguing in effect that the state and the family have been on a collision course throughout modern history. Occasionally, he even takes a dig at family court, which even in his day was engaging in abuses that have since become much more widespread. I highlight these aspects in the review.
Stephen Baskerville
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http://www.springerlink.com/content/g3232524710725l2/
http://www.springerlink.com/content/g3232524710725l2/fulltext.pdf?page=1
Carle C. Zimmerman, Family and Civilization
Edited by James Kurth. Wilmington, DE: ISI Books, 2008. xiii + 337 pp. $18.00. ISBN-10: 1933859377; ISBN-13: 978--1933859378
Stephen Baskerville
A society grappling with a declining birthrate, proliferation
of single-parent homes, and government policies that
undermine parents and families will find it sobering to learn
that some were sounding the alarm decades ago, even in the
apparently family-friendly post-war years, and that the trends
were developing long before that. Even more disturbing is
that the same ills plagued ancient civilizations—shortly
before they collapsed.
A publishing event of major importance is the re-issue of
Family and Civilization by Harvard sociologist Carle Clark
Zimmerman (1897--1983). Originally published in 1947,
the book is a classic of family scholarship, though as Allan
Carlson explains in the introduction, it has largely been
ignored by the academic elite.
Zimmerman demonstrates how the fragmentation of the
family in Greece and Rome preceded the disintegration of
those civilizations and how similar trends now threaten our
own. Writing as the post-war baby boom (a temporary
aberration, it turns out) was just beginning and the family
appeared to be on a major upsurge, Zimmerman identified
long-term trends that are only now reaching general
awareness.
Polybius noticed "a low birth-rate and a general decrease
of the population" in Greece during the second century BC.
In modern Europe birth rates have been falling since the late
nineteenth century and were below replacement level by
1930. This falloff reflected a larger renunciation of the
family as a social and personal institution, what Zimmerman
calls "familism." "The extinction of faith in the familistic
system in Europe in the last two generations is identical with
the movements in Greece during the century following the
Peloponnesian Wars and in Rome from about 150 AD to 250
AD," he wrote: "In each case the change in the faith and
belief in family systems was associated with rapid adoption
of negative reproductive rates, increased acceptance of
perverted forms of sex behavior, and with enormous crises
in the very civilizations themselves."
One can come away from Zimmerman's book very
pessimistic—from the realization that today's trends have
been developing not for decades but for centuries, from
knowing that our Greek and Roman predecessors were
unable to prevent similar crises, and because the demographic
and cultural trends seem beyond the reach of public
policy. Readers witnessing continuing family deterioration
six decades later may conclude that the prognosis for
Western civilization is bleak indeed.
And yet while demography and culture are major
themes, they are not wholly determining. While he does
not state it explicitly, a striking feature of Zimmerman's
analysis, and one that offers some hope, is that the decline
of the family—really, the attack on the family—is not a
matter simply of impersonal forces but the direct and
conscious work of the state. Over and over, Zimmerman
points out how the state views the family as a threat, how
the state eviscerates the family, the state sponsors antifamily
intellectuals, the state seeks supremacy over the
family and society in general.
Zimmerman writes of the "relation between the type of
family and strong central governments," arguing that
historically it was in their absence that the family developed
most extensively. Later, "Strongly developed central governments
made the internal cohesion of family groups less
and less necessary." Whenever the family shows signs of
dysfunction, "the state helps to break it up." The state...
[More...] ]]> Powerful Letters in Touchstone Magazine
The letters below were published in the April issue of Touchstone magazine. They were never posted online, but the editors have graciously granted permission to circulate them by email and for posting. They are in response to my article, "Divorced from Reality", in the January-February issue (which is online, below, so please continue to circulate it).
Notice this striking line from the first letter:
"Before my own experience, my tendency was to look down condescendingly on divorced people and, for the most part, blame the men. My attitude, of course, changed drastically when it happened to me."
There are other similar statements in these letters. Note that the only negative letter is from a divorce lawyer, to which the editors kindly permitted me to reply.
Touchstone is a prestigious and influential magazine of Christian thought. Please circulate these letters among your pastors, priests, and congregations. We really do have a lot of good will for our cause out there among pro-family groups.
Similarly powerful testimonies can be found in the 5-star Amazon reviews of my book, Taken Into Custody: The War Against Fathers, Marriage, and the Family.
To send more letters to the editor, go to: http://www.touchstonemag.com/docs/navigation_docs/contact.html
Thanks once again to all who wrote in.
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Touchstone magazine, vol. 22, no. 3 (April 2009), pp. 8-9.
Letters
DIVORCE IN REALITY
As one who has been through an unwanted divorce, I especially appreciate Stephen Baskerville's "Divorced from Reality" (January/February 2009). Before my own experience, my tendency was to look down condescendingly on divorced people and, for the most part, blame the men. My attitude, of course, changed drastically when it happened to me.
The message of the article is one the Church needs to hear, since the general churchgoing public no doubt shares the understanding I once had. We need to understand how the corrupt divorce-court system paved the way for the present push by homosexuals to "marry" and adopt children. The Church needs to consider that, while it's great to work toward ending abortion and preventing homosexual "marriage," it might be better to back up and take more preventive measures. What must be prevented is the divorce mentality that reduces marriage to a trial-and-error game that causes innumerable problems for the children involved.
-- GLEN BLESI
Saint Clair, Missouri
Thank you for publishing Stephen Baskerville's article on divorce. I want to emphasize that men and women are unjustly losing custody of their children in family court systems gone mad. Lawyers who teach their clients to falsely cry "abuse" not only destroy innocent parents, but also destroy the credibility of true child abuse cases.
When my husband was in the throes of his affair, churches I turned to for help did nothing. But going to social services for help tore our family apart. Instead of getting my husband the help he needed, they threatened to take my daughter and 4-month-old twin sons away from me and place them in foster care if I didn't agree to leave my husband. The judge overseeing our case was a friend of my husband's family, and he took my children away from me for getting social services involved in the first place. I lost temporary custody of my children; my husband continued his affair; and the churches in our community stood by and simply watched my family fall apart.
Thanks again for publishing Dr. Baskerville's plea for churches to get involved in doing what they can to prevent the divorce epidemic, because once a family gets involved in the legal system, you can count on that family being destroyed.
-- Mary C.
By email
I've just read Stephen Baskerville's article on divorce. Its description of the role of government in breaking up families, the farce of it, and the role that economics plays in it, were very accurate. The role of the Church needs addressing as well.
I've just experienced just this. I am angered and frustrated at the general public's lack of awareness on this issue, and the betrayal of our institutions by those who gain by it. I'm angered and frightened as I realize the malevolent power the government has over us. We need to find a way of undoing this destructive process.
-- DAVID GOODWIN
Marlboro, New York
In response to "Divorced from Reality" by Stephen Baskerville: I am getting divorced in Texas and the experience is shocking. There are no issues like drugs, alcohol, extramarital partners, or financial misbehavior. She does not want the life I offer her. I am out of my home, paying children support plus mortgage, and living in an apartment with rented furniture. I see our girls on alternating weekends.
This experience is common for a large number of men that I've recently met. Family laws in Texas encourage divorce. The women know they will easily get the house, the neighbors, most of the time with the kids, child support, most of the property, and perhaps even spousal support, even if their husbands did nothing wrong.
The divorce process encourages conflict between the parents and promotes a "winner" versus "loser" conflict, with the children as the main losers. The children are denied their intact family and their rightful access to their father. A father's ambitions to be an equal parent are unlikely to be met, given the strong bias to the children's mother. Our children deserve equal access to both parents.
A good starting point in a divorce involving minor children would include the presumptions of: (1) equal parenting time with the children, (2) equal or proportional division of the community property, and (3) child support specifically for child care costs and not to subsidize a parent.
-- RANDY C. JOHN
By email
Thank you for finally breaking the silence about the devastating effects of divorce with Stephen Baskerville's "Divorced from Reality." Although situations of divorce can be touchy, and feelings tender, and there are no unforgiveable sins or unredeemable situations, we have no right to change the Word of God and ignore rampant sin.
We publicly oppose gay marriage on the grounds that a child needs a father and a mother, and then often ignore the needs of children suffering from divorce. How could we be more hypocritical?
Look at what the Bible says: "For I hate divorce, says the Lord, the God of Israel" (Mal. 2:16). And: "Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the great and terrible day of the Lord comes. And he will turn the hearts of fathers to their children, and the hearts of children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the land with a curse" (Mal. 4:5-6).
One of America's many sins right now is that the hearts of fathers are being torn away from their children, and the children away from their fathers. As America is now staggering under the evident judgment of God (with the hope it will turn us toward repentance and healing), how can we ignore this clear warning? He who has ears to hear, let him hear.
-- JON MOSELEY
Southport , North Carolina
FAULT OR NO-FAULT
I didn't think it was possible to overstate the evil of no-fault divorce, but Stephen Baskerville managed to do it in "Divorced from Reality" (January/ February 2009).
Although I got out of divorce practice 15-20 years ago, in no small part due to the evils of a system that did essentially end marriage (thanks, Maggie Gallagher), I don't know what jurisdiction and what process Baskerville has in mind (and I suspect that he has none distinctly in mind) when he paints this picture: "the father is...simply sitting in his own home minding his own business. The state seizes control of his children with no burden of proof to justify why. The burden of proof (and the financial burden) falls on the father to demonstrate why they should be returned." Again, "Once arrested, the
father is summarily jailed" and "he...loses his children summarily and often permanently."
Maybe Baskerville is using "summarily" and "no burden of proof" as fundamentalist pastors in my youth used "literally" -- as in "college students today are literally raising Cain on campus." I know what "burden of proof" and "summarily" mean, and I don't think Baskerville was telling the truth. If he was telling the truth, his readers deserved more than rhetorical incendiary devices lobbed without explanation.
I hope someone with more time than I responds in more detail, but I'll close summarily with "shame on Touchstone" -- something I don't say or think very often -- insisting that it's now your burden of proof to show that Baskerville wasn't just shilling for his shrilly-titled book.
-- ROGER WM. BENNETT
Lafayette, Indiana
REPLY:
Roger Bennett, by his own admission, does not take the time or trouble to challenge any specific points in my article. Yet he accuses me of untruthfulness. This in itself should alert Touchstone readers to the logic of divorce law. "No-fault" divorce means that the outcome of every case is predetermined. No evidence, no arguments, no facts will make any difference. In every case, the "defendant" will lose, the "plaintiff" will win, and the divorce will be granted. Even if the defendant is legally unimpeachable, he is punished and can be punished further. The state then claims the power to seize control of his children -- without giving any further justification than "divorce", the divorce it has just granted without explanation. The innocent parent is then criminalized for unauthorized contact with his own children. So he is indeed "sitting in his own home, minding his own business," and he may no longer see his children without government authorization.
He is also criminalized for failure or inability to pay the state money he has done nothing to "owe". Parents are incarcerated for these matters, and there is almost never a trial. That is what I meant by "summarily."
No one denies this is what happens. Unlike Mr. Bennett, most divorce operatives simply reformulate them into legal jargon that makes them appear innocuous: "divorce," "custody," "child support." Mr. Bennett simply calls me a liar without evincing a single inaccuracy in my article or bothering to provide any evidence. His letter itself demonstrates the modus operandi and rules of evidence used in divorce court.
-- STEPHEN BASKERVILLE ]]> |
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