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Home > Health - Child Circumcision > Article
Date: Fri, 22 Sep 1995 23:43:19 EDT
To: noharmm-l@eskimo.com
Subject: Re: FW: how to avoid being forced into it.
Sender: owner-noharmm@eskimo.com

--[ ORIGINAL MESSAGE ]-----------------

Someone sent me the question below. As a parent of a boy, I have to admit, I don't know the answer, but I wish I did. Has anyone already thought about this and come up with suggestions? Thanks.

---------------Original Message---------------

I know that I don't want it to be done on my child but there are many ways I suspect it could happen anyway.
-I can imagine that a doctor would bring up an emergency safety issue and sort of push it on the spouse in the heat of some situation. I heard that one aquaintance had it done on a child because of a hernia. Is it possible that a doctor could come up with a variety of medical emergency reasons to override the initial decision both parents make against it? What can be done to be prepared about it?

I looked all over your WEB site but did not find much about how to be prepared about the unforseen real or alleged health situations arising at or after birth. Thanks.
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There is no known medical condition which would require an immediate circumcision. If you and your spouse know this, no lie will prevail to change your mind.

Circumcisions legally require your written consent. A circumcision in the absence of written consent will entitle your son to money damages. An Alabama jury recently awarded $65,000. Do NOT sign the consent form under any circumstances. Very few circumcisions are done without a written consent form.

Put a tag on the crib saying "nocirc". Get the baby out of the hospital as soon as possible. If possible keep the baby in the room at all times while in the hospital.

Things are not as bad as they used to be but in some sections of the country circumcision is still all but automatic.

Make the attending physician aware in advance of your intent to sue if the infant is circumcised.

Also in theory, one could ask the district attorney to charge the physician with battery, cruelty to a child, and possibly other criminal charges. I have not heard of this being done, but it is already being discussed in Australia. The Queensland Law Reform Commission says it can be done in Queensland.


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Circumcision Horror Stories
What can go wrong? A few examples...

Boy Circumcised without Father's Consent
Father returns from trip to find his pediatrician took the opportunity to make a few quick dollars.

Jacob's Story
Coma results from circumcision complication

Circumcision Death
Even death sometimes occurs due to infection as a result of circumcision.

Small Penis
The condition may be called micro penis, small penis, trapped penis, webbed penis, or inconspicuous penis. When it occurs, it is often a consequence of circumcision.

It's a Boy!
Television carried the graphic footage of a circumcision that went disastrously wrong.



Health
Fertility, Circumcision, Prostate Cancer

The Medical Basis for Routine Circumcision
A quest for official medical authorities of the western world that advocate child circumcision. The historical basis of the procedure.

Child Circumcision
How did it become popular in the us? Why is it in such rapid decline today?

Protect Your Son
How a father discovered, too late, that circumcision is not a good thing.

Circumcision - Jewish Issues

The Role of Circumcision in the Islamic World
by Sami Aldeeb

Self-Test for Sexual Sensitivity
How much of your sexual sensitivity has been cut away?

Do Not Promote Circumcision for Cancer Prevention
says the American Cancer Society

Penile Reduction Surgery
Quotes from the medical profession.

Sexual Mutilation
Quotes from internet resources.

Horror Stories
Many live with problems resulting from involuntary circumcision.

The Circumcision Decision
Answers to your questions about infant circumcision.

Care of Intact Boys
Answers to your questions about your young son's intact penis.

Anatomy of the Penis and Mechanics of Intercourse
The physical function of the foreskin.
by Geoffrey T. Falk

Listing of Publications and Organizations
Support for parents who want to protect their family from involuntary genital alteration.

Glossary of Related Terms

The FGM Research Home Page
Female Genital Mutilation

Acknowledgments

Routine Digital Mutilation
A Short Story - Can Johnny Kramp Be Saved?

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