Now in two editions:
Home Life   <-|->  Home Strife

Featured Sections
 Home
 What's New
 Beginners' Tour
 True Stories
 The Male Body

Topic Indexes
 The Joy of Fathering
 Importance of Fathers
 Fathers & Sons
 Fathers & Daughters
 Custody & Divorce
 Child Support
 Single Fathers
 Second Wives -
      Second Families


 Fathering News
 Fathering Forum
 Fathering Poetry
 Fathering Fiction



Advertise on
fathermag.com



See the daily updates to this site by adding it to your Wikio feed, or your Yahoo or Google page:

Add to Google

http://www.wikio.com





la paternité
La paternite est un homme le plus important travail

Chinese: 父亲
父亲是一名男子的最重要的工作

Japanese: 父権
父親は、男の最も重要な仕事です。





The Fertile Monk

Becoming a dad is a bit like becoming a monk. It requires devotion.

Survival
means protecting our freedom from ever more powerful government agents.





The First Female President: The Fantasy and the Reality

by Carey Roberts




Last Tuesday the first female president took office, courtesy of ABCs latest series, Commander in Chief. In the first show, vice president Mackenzie Allen takes over the Oval Office when the president suddenly dies from an aneurysm but not before confiding to Allen that she had been put on the ticket as a political stunt to get him elected.

While TV viewers were treated to the fantasy of a female president on Tuesday night, American voters saw the reality of female politicians when they woke up the next morning. Thats when Louisiana governor Kathleen Blanco appeared before a Senate panel investigating the Katrina disaster.

The day before, former FEMA head Michael Brown, in his appearance before the panel, charged that Blanco had failed to order a mandatory evacuation of New Orleans, contributing to the overall breakdown of law and order.

But when Blanco waltzed into town on Wednesday, she requested chivalrous lawmakers to not ask any embarrassing questions. Instead of being treated like any other accountable public official, she was feted like royalty. Thats a double standard in my book.

It turns out the sharpest critics of female politicians are women themselves.

Columnist Carol Platt Liebau recently hit on governor Blancos lachrymose response to Katrina, acknowledging a visceral concern on the part of many voters about the way that a female President would act under pressure or in a crisis. [www.humaneventsonline.com/article.php?id=9308]

Then Liebau took senator Dianne Feinstein to task for her outrageous conduct during the hearings for Supreme Court candidate John Roberts. Before casting her vote, she applauded Roberts for his brilliant legal mind. But Feinstein ended up voting against Roberts because when she asked him talk to her as a son, a husband, a father, he gave a very detached response.

So let me get this right: heres the preening third-term senator from California who is dinging the future Chief Justice of the Supreme Court for an answer she deemed was too logical and thoughtful. To paraphrase Brad Paisleys current hit song, What was she thinking?

Next is the problem of female politicians being out of step with the electorate. During last weeks final vote on Judge Roberts, only 22% of the Senators voted nay. But six of the 14 female senators nearly half -- opposed his nomination: Barbara Boxer, Maria Cantwell, Dianne Feinstein, Hillary Clinton, Barbara Mikulski, and Debbie Stabenow. Appears the female senators far more liberal than the overall Senate.

Then theres the truth-in-packaging issue. Some female politicians project an altar-girl image of enlightened centrism, all the while lobbying behind the scenes for radical leftist legislation.

Take Michigans Debbie Stabenow. Widely viewed as a political moderate, it turns out her voting record ranks her up there with leftist die-hards like Edward Kennedy, Hillary Clinton, and John Kerry.

Americans have other doubts about female politicians, concerns that have nothing to do with sexism.

Many female politicians view issues through the rose-colored lens of personal relationships and gender. Carol Platt Liebau describes the concern as the stereotype that womens decision-making is more often based on personal experience than on rational analysis, a perception that Dianne Feinsteins recent grandstanding did little to dispel.

Another example: men lag behind women on almost every indicator of health status. But this past week senator Barbara Mikulski of Maryland issued a press release that proudly announced, Mikulski Fights for Womens Health Care with Federal Funding for Research, Treatment. [http://mikulski.senate.gov/record.cfm?id=246499]

Why isnt Mikulski also fighting for mens health? Are men political lepers whose health is simply unworthy of mention?

The rap on female politicians actually runs much deeper than their stance on specific pieces of legislation. Hold on to your hat while you read this scorching blast from Devvy Kidd: The feminization of Congress and our state legislatures is destroying constitutional government, running America into oceans of unpayable debt and breeding generations of helpless women, whining for mother government to take care of them and their every need. [www.wnd.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=43354]

Now hows that for political incorrectness?

Finally theres the Hillary question. Well, on second thought, that one will have to wait for later.

Theres no inherent reason why a woman cant serve as our chief of state. Indeed, Margaret Thatcher comes to mind as a courageous woman who turned around a failing British economy.

But look at the current top tier of American female politicians. There isnt a single one in the bunch who comes close to qualifying for the US presidency by virtue of her experience, temperament, and proven commitment to serving the needs of all Americans.

Thats the sad reality.



Copyright 2005 FatherMag.com, a trademark of Fathering Enterprises, Inc
All rights reserved. FatherMag.com authors retain their right to republish elsewhere.


Disclaimer






fathermag.com
The on-line magazine for men with families.









Legal Disclaimer

Powered by
BindNine.net